First impressions are everything. When you match with another user on Bumble, the first message will determine if you get a reply or not. Opening lines on Bumble are just as important as your profile picture and bio.
Your opening line on Bumble should be direct, entertaining, and should pose a question to the user. The main focus should be on getting the other person to respond.
In this article, we’re going to show you the first messages and opening lines you should be using on Bumble.
Why First Messages & Opening Lines Matter
First impressions in life and dating apps are super important. You only get one chance for a first impression. This is why you should take some time when crafting your opening line.
Opening lines on Bumble are different than other dating apps, mainly because Bumble requires the girl to make the first move.
Traditionally, the guy makes the first move and the girl is left to respond. On Bumble, it’s reversed, as the girl has the power to respond or move to the next match.
If you’re not completely comfortable with opening lines on Bumble, we’re here to help ease the process and hopefully get you more responses on Bumble.
How To Start A Conversation
If you’ve matched with another user, it’s because they think you’re physically attractive. This is the hardest part, as apps like Bumble are judged mainly on your physical appearance.
Once you’ve secured a match on Bumble, it’s time to start the conversation. There are a few rules that we like to abide by, before actually sending the message.
*For a full breakdown of opening line messages, we’ve built an eBook to guide you through the first message process.
Before you actually ask the question to the male user, we recommend scanning over their profile again. Using a blanket statement isn’t going to make your standout.
Remember, there’s a good chance that the other person has other matches, you need to be their number 1. Take a minute to understand what they’re highlighting in their profile, as well as what they’re showcasing in their pictures.
Once you feel comfortable with what the person is presenting both in words and in pictures, then you should ask them a question.
Ask A Question
If you want a response back on Bumble, simply as a question. The number one opening line that we see, from users that have trouble getting responses back, is “hey”.
Saying a term like “hi”, or “hello”, often comes off that you’re boring and provide no additional fun or value after that comment. I know it may seem odd, but people make split decisions based on first messages. Remember, you’re competing against other users as well.
Asking a question to the other user will warrant them to respond back. This is not 100% but it drastically increases your chances of getting a response back.
If they’ve swiped right on you, they’ve already liked your profile because of your physical looks. Asking them a question will help you show interest in their life.
Talk About Their Pictures Or Bio
The first question you should ask about is something to do with their pictures, bio, or the questions they answered.
For example, if the guy is in a picture with his dog, ask him what kind of dog he has. If he’s at a sports game, ask him who his favorite player is and why.
Bumble has added question prompts, which allows users to answer questions about their hobbies and day to day activities. These are great jumping-off points!
Asking a question about their pictures or bio is a great way to stand out from other users. This means that you took the time to look at their profile and learn the user before actually sending a message.
Make A Joke
If you’re an outgoing person, who loves to laugh and be sarcastic, this may be your route to find the other people who can keep up with you.
Sending a joke where the other person has to answer is a good way to lighten up the mood. If you’re looking for an outgoing counterpart, this is a great way to find them.
We recommend that the joke that you do send to the user has them answering a question. Don’t just say the joke without getting a response from them. If you do, there may be a good chance they don’t respond.
Although it may seem untraditional, it will capture the attention of other users immediately and allow you to stand out from others.
We recommend only using this technique if you feel comfortable taking this technique, as it could work against you if you’re not outgoing. This could set the wrong precedent if you’re just trying to be funny and make a joke.
The use of emojis adds a spark to whatever message you’re trying to send. The simple yellow smiley face shows even more interest than what your message is displaying.
Adding a smiley face or a wink face is a great addition to the message that you’re already sending. It also enhances the message to add more flair to the question your asking.
If you’re someone who doesn’t use emojis, we recommend trying at least 1 or 2 in your messages to see what you get back for a response.
First Messages You Shouldn’t Send
Boring Generic Messages
We recommend you stay away from the boring and generic messages. Boring generic messages will simply turn off the user that you’re sending the message to on Bumble. Our list of boring messages include:
- What’s Up
- How Are you
- What’s Going On
Stay away from these messages, as they come off as boring and generic. Anyone can say Hi or Hello. We recommend actually taking the time to look at the person’s profile. This way you won’t have to send a generic, boring message to the other user.
If you’re not getting responses, this could be a big reason why. Stay away from these boring messages as they could be why you may not be getting matches.
Opening Lines That Don’t Warrant A Response
Staying with our theme, you want to avoid opening lines that don’t warrant a response. Remember, we want engagement from the other user. If you just say hey, there’s no response back to that besides “hey” or “what’s up”.
These types of responses immediately come off as boring and it will take a little bit of work both on your side and his side to spark the conversation. Every response is crucial, as you want to capture their interest from the first message and opening line.
First messages and opening lines on Bumble are important. Asking the right question to the user is the difference between getting a response or not.
If you’re looking for a complete guide on opening lines, we have your answer here!
Take time and study the profile you just matched with. Remember, you’re competing for attention against other users. If your messages are boring and generic, there’s a good chance someone else is standing out over you.
Use emojis and questions about the person’s pictures as well as a bio. This will help you get more matches and be more competitive against other profiles that are on Bumble.